Dear Ravi:

So let’s say you and Jerry are in very good terms, you passed your exams successfully, are in college: are you living at home with your grandmother and parents (I will refer to them next as “the three”) while going to college for how many years? Then once you finish college where are you living? Same place or new place? With the three or without the three? Are you living with the three until death do you apart?

How is the behavior of the three different toward you while you are in college (still living with them)? How is their behavior toward you different after you graduate from college?

anita