I agree with the shrink. You’ve been married along time and this guy is something new….something exciting and thrilling. You’re suffering from the typical, thinking that the grass is greener on the other side. You’re more than likely bored with your husband. I don’t doubt that your husband is a great guy, but the relationship is probably dull…..routine and predictable. Just don’t throw away years of marriage for a guy who you clearly see don’t share the same feelings.