Dear Karene:

Welcome back. I remember some of our past correspondence, what you shared in previous threads. As I read this one, the following point occurred to me:

If one of those women on his Facebook page, the blond, gorgeous, movie star looking women visited him in his garage, like you did, she too would be sleeping on the sofa. If one of those women was in your place, he would look like (his physical appearance) and behave just like he did with you.

All this time you imagined it was YOU but it is him. He may very well be unable to perform sexually, for one thing. He may very well not want to try, to bother with it.

This behavior of his, when you slept over his place, this is all you can expect from him- no matter how you look. It doesn’t matter how you look, this is not the cause of him not initiating physical intimacy with him.

anita