Dear Chau:

Glad there are points in that article (which I didn’t open) that are helpful to you. I do hope you get to a point of closure, that is, of peaceful acceptance that this relationship you had is over, and thank goodness it is over. When I typed just now “peaceful acceptance” I mean, at the same time you feel sadness, sometimes anger, maybe, longings for the good moments in it, that at the same time, and over time, you will also feel peace about it being over and gratitude that indeed it is over because that relationship discouraged your well being (It was bad for you).

anita