Dear nsuri:

If you read some of the threads under the category of Relationships, here on tiny Buddha, you’d see that a whole lots of young people (and plenty of older people) struggle with relationships: many want a relationship, not having one and many have relationships where they are unhappy. And that is without a physical disability, a limping in your case.

Regarding the limping: some women will not want to be in a relationship with you because you limp. But then some women will not want to be in a relationship with a lot of men for all kinds of reasons: too short, too tall, too nice, not nice enough, etc… and often, no particular reason.

So, you see, the fact that you limp doesn’t suggest much to me. All you need is one woman who likes you and wants to get to know you better; one woman that you like and want to get to know better.

The question is do you have opportunities to meet women? Are you on an internet dating site? Do you work and are there women in your workplace? Any social activities…?

And that two months relationship you had, why did it end?

anita