Dear misomojo:

It is very close to my bedtime and I am tired. I’d like to reply to your last post above tomorrow morning, about ten hours from now. If you read this before then, regarding your husband, can you describe how his lack of confidence expresses itself; how was it endearing before and how is it a turn off now (why the change in your perception)? And also what are his issues that need healing or growth- where is he stuck, do you think?

Back tomorrow.
anita