Dear Janine:

You asked: “Is it possible for someone who loves you to not have time for you?”

My answer: absolutely. If I am distressed and tend to take it out on someone, if that is my inclination, then staying away from the person I love so not to hurt him/ her is very loving. If abusive people all over the world didn’t give their (abusive) time to the ones they claim to love, why, that would be very loving.

Depending on the quality of Time, it can be a benefit to another or harm.

anita