Dear tmeinke301:

Oh, oh, doesn’t sound good. Your cold feet are understandably cold: your relationship is problematic already. Is there any chance that you will reconsider this marriage to be as a marriage not to be?

I mean, it is clearly not a good idea to get married with him. You have a great opportunity now to prevent a whole lot of future suffering. Use that opportunity.

Back to my question: are you able to reconsider the marriage idea and end your relationship with him?

anita