Dear sly66:

You are uncomfortable in this person’s company, why not bail?

I am assuming that you are confused because the person said he is not gay and therefore you don’t know if your discomfort about his physical attempts with you is valid. You don’t trust your own observations about him being attracted to you physically, so you are waiting for him to tell you that you are correct before you bail.

You are young and lots yet to learn. I wonder: are you often not sure about the validity of your observations about people? I had great difficult trusting my evaluations of people and was often confused and clueless myself regarding WHO was it I was dealing with at any time. Is this the case with you, partly ..?

anita