Dear sisjay:

From your share it seems to me that you feel guilty for missing your girlfriend when she left to Canada, as if missing her is a character flaw, a sin, something you feel guilty about. Is that so?

You wrote: “She was trying hard from Toronto to get me in that country. We found a way…I promised that I would come.. later, I found out that way wasn’t going to work and I did not tell her as she would get hurt because of that. I gave her a reason to get mad at me. I broke my promise.”- I didn’t understand this paragraph: why did her way of you coming to Canada not work? Why didn’t you tell her it couldn’t work? Why did you keep it a secret?

And what is it that you actually say to her when she was in Canada that brought about the breakup? What is it that you feel guilty about?

anita