Dear lilywater:

Your post indicates such sensible, logical, organized and balanced thinker- impressive to me. Very organized, calm. Your analysis and conclusions seem correct to me- I trust them; I trust your thinking.

Can’t argue against evidence and you have all the evidence you need to be 100% certain that this man is dishonest, calculating, distracted, disorganized… calculating and disorganized at the same time.

Obviously he should not be an option for a reconnection. Are you still considering getting back with him, that is on days when “the heart wins”?

anita