Dear whyldmagnolia:

The thought of him having sexual intercourse with other women (condoms around, texting- the evidence) while letting you do only that one thing for him, sexually, a one way pleasing of him is sickening to me. How humiliating. If I understood this one part of your relationship correctly, how can you stand it?

It is clear to me that your relationship with him as a boyfriend needs to end, completely. Whether he should have contact with your two girls- depending on the nature of his relationship with them- if it has been beneficial to the girls and if it can continue without a relationship with you (other than accommodating visitations with the girls).

Please do post again.

anita