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5) “I am in a bad place and need help”- my friends don’t get it. He will because he too is in a bad place and needs help. Maybe he will understand me and help me.
6) I deserve his treatment just as I deserved it when my parent/s treated me that way. Now I have the chance to be so good to him that he will change his mind about me, change his behavior and love me. I will make him love me, see my value. And in turn, I will believe it (that I am worthy) myself.

anita