You are right. Just really bothers me that I couldn’t figure it out. Even seems like she had fooled her co-workers who thought that we would be a good match. If I can figure it out after a year, I am really nervous about my ability to figure it out.

Also nervous about actually finding someone who isn’t into that stuff. Wonder if part of the driving force for the behavior is that because men so out number women out here, options are limited. Sort of like the concept of a business monopoly; scarce product demands whatever price. What I can’t figure out is why, in this environment, you see the pairings that you do. Guess that I just need to get out more and meet yet more people.