Dear shanola:

I don’t believe in the “Universe”- it is just another word for “god”. It is not true that the Universe/ god does things for a reason or with your best interest at heart. There is no such god. Things happen, often at random and often there are reasons, but none that are predetermined by a god.

Using logic and insight, I can try to help you figure out what there is for you to learn from what already happened. For that purpose, I will ask you the following and if you would like, you can answer me and we will keep communicating for the purpose of you gaining insight. I don’t have that insight to your life yet, it is something that can be investigated, so if you are willing…:

You wrote: ” I’ve been sad for so many years and one person comes in and gives me this hope and now its gone.”- tell me about those “so many years”- since when? You are now 22, when did these years of sadness start and what were the circumstances? Tell me more about that “family that can’t even be in the same room together without a fight”

anita