Dear anongirl:

In your post to me you wrote “To keep it simple…” Well, what you wrote next is too vague, unclear.

You wrote and stressed that “he was my best friend” – what does it mean? How did it look like/ feel like, him being your best friend?

Then you wrote: “and then like stuff happened”- What stuff? It must have been significant stuff, what was it?

“We never really defined the relationship”- what definition were you interested in?

“I liked him a lot. But I knew he wasn’t the kind of guy I’d spend the rest of my life with.”- What did you like about him and what did you dislike about him? Of the second part, what was it that you couldn’t live with if you were to be in a long term relationship with him?

“So instead of giving him false hope, I thought deleting him out of my life will clear it up”- where you trying to protect him, or you, or both? “Clear it up- clear what?

anita