Dear liquidsnake:

For 1.6 years you had a relationship with a woman. It was mental/ emotional but not physical.

What do you mean by it being not physical? Was it partly or mostly a long distance relationship/ online relationship? When you were physically present with each other- did you hold hands? Hug?

Why was there no physical closeness?

She discouraged you from having contact with other female friends but she had contact with male friends, correct?
What kind of contact did she have with other male friends? Mostly online? In person? Did those male friends try to date her?

You asked: “Am I a narcissist? Was my behaviour controlling?” Did she say that you are a narcissist and that you are controlling? What did she consider to be a narcissist and a controlling man?

You asked: “Is it too much to ask for?” What are you asking for?

And you asked: “Is this how u treat your loved ones…” What about how she treated you do you find offensive, specifically?

anita