Dear liquidsnake:

I don’t understand much about your relationship. It seems to me that she was the controlling one by insisting you only have contact with her and not with anyone else. It seems to me that she demanded an unreasonable one sided exclusiveness from you but not from herself. And then she blamed you for having fears (of her being social with other male friends) while it is she who was fearing losing you to other female friends.

So she pointed her finger of blame at you, blaming you and condemning you for what she felt?

anita