Dear ms1681:

You want to accept the ending of this relationship and to soothe the pain because you are hurting. It hurts when someone chooses to not have us in their lives… as if we were not important enough for them and after we tried so hard. Two things I am thinking: learn (over time) all you can learn from this relationship, now in the past and heal from this heart break. It is an injury that requires healing. Please do use this thread to learn/ heal, over time. Be patient with the process and gentle with yourself.

anita