Dear hangdo:

I think it is a good idea to communicate with him- way better than waiting and assuming, hoping and dreaming and guessing; checking his Facebook page for clues and then, guessing some more. Better be upfront, direct: ask him what you need to know, do so gently but clearly, honestly. Share with him your true feelings and ask him what he feels. It takes courage but it will be worth it. Do post anytime, and if you do communicate with him, I hope you post about it and you and I can communicate about it then.

anita