Dear dreaming715:

Your request: “Please help me come to terms with this (“with never marrying/ having kids)”-

Relax into this thought. Think it and take one deep breath after another. Think it and let it sink in, invite the thought, accept it. Don’t fight it anymore. Don’t try to change your single/unmarried status. Don’t imagine being in a relationship. Do this for a day, and then every day, one day at a time.

If you do, please post again about how this is working for you (I hope it does).

anita