That indeed is the biggest problem. In fact if it hadn’t been for that, we possibly might have been reconciled by now. She had called me “Ravi bro” back in April and I had taken the point to call her sister, but it doesn’t seem to have any effect on her. It’s such a paradoxical/catch-22 situation that I’ve grown bitter and resentful of this whole brother-sister concept. Maybe her stance on this issue can be softened a bit somehow to realize that not every loving inter-gender relation is brotherly… that I genuinely love her and care for her, never intended anything bad for her and our bond was true, no matter what her sister says. That a true bond transcends labeling and it’s not right to break relations like this. I wish she realized even a fraction of it somehow.