Dear hangdo:

You wrote that it is “hard to accept the truth”- and I agree. But it is good for us to accept the truth. It is always right for our mental health long term to accept the truth.

If we don’t accept the truth, we will repeat the same behaviors that bring us misery. So, it is not a good idea for you to date other men until you accept the truth of what happens with this guy, Josh, you called him.

Are you able to write here what that truth is that is hard for you to accept? The whole truth involving you and Josh, from the beginning of meeting him online to the last emails you shared here?

What is the truth? Waiting for your reply.

anita