Dear evipax:

So he coped with your stress for ten months. Wonder how he did that for ten months and what changed for him recently/ today. Did you ask him?

Did you have discussions about his troubles with your distress before, during the ten months?

And those bitter behaviors you mentioned, which you regret, I wonder what those are. Maybe they are abusive or very difficult to handle for anyone. What are those bitter behaviors?

Answer if you’d like. I am asking because I am trying to understand and be of some help.

anita