Hello and thank you for your kind words,

I will inject this truth serum into her and tell her what she is doing is deeply bothering me. It is bothering me because she has always wantes to be a piolet but doesn’t want to put in the work to achieve such an awesome career. The fact the she is saying that she always wanted to be a firefighter is annoying my soul. I have become content with putting it on hold. My city allow the public to sign up every 3 year by that time my daughter will be 6 and I will be 28 I will be able to have her enrolled in school and after school care until my fiance can pick her up. My sister is driving me crazy because she wants me to get her the application, help her study, show her where fire academy is ect. I just feel if she really wanted this she would be able to fiND public information the same way I did. Also, when I asked her why she wanted that career she said and I quote ” to look at the sexy firefighters”. She doesn’t give me any advice or support when I explain my dilemma to her. She just changes the subject back to herself. I have learned a valuable lesson which is to achieve my goals in silence. I have never received support or inspiration from her so there is no point in letting her know what I am achieving.