Dear Carly:

I read your update on the older thread. My suggestion regarding you getting together with him (in person, is it?) this coming Wednesday, to talk, is that you prepare. Use this time and this thread to prepare for the conversation to come.

If you don’t prepare, nothing much is likely to happen during the conversation: you will be too distressed with fears and worries, you will be hearing your own anxious thoughts above what he will be saying. You will not be available to listen to him. Therefore- prepare. If you’d like to do so, think how you can prepare and let me know. Then I can help you with the preparation.

anita