Dear Choccoffeewine:

Reads like you are doing well, right attitude and I like your understanding that it will take more than one conversation with your husband. I believe it will take multiple conversations. It is a good idea to regularly talk, really talk.

Your observations of your husband working from home, his health improving (relaxation, nutrition…well being) and your other descriptions make me think it is indeed best for all of you to not move after the end of the school year. If I was you, I wouldn’t move unless by not moving your family will experience hunger and homelessness. In other words, I wouldn’t move.

It will be better for your husband to not move even if he is driven to move, when the time comes. He may feel it is necessary while it is not. He may be driven by fears that are not reasonable (future discussions).

anita