Dear Katie:

You are welcome and thank you for your kind words!

Oh, I didn’t know about your bio father. Not a good idea to try again to get close to him. Not at all. It was wrong for him to lose his senses and make you his confidant, very wrong, for crying out loud. It’s a role reversal. When I suggested you talking with him, it was for the purpose of him being helpful to you, not more of the other way around.

So both parents, or all three are out of the equation when it comes to your healing. The help and support you need is with neither one. Lots of adult children are stuck in years and decades of trying to get water out of a rock, that is trying to find solution where the problem is. These people created and promoted your problems. The last place where the solution is – is in relationships with them.

Healing is elsewhere. this is a very important principle. As I said, you save years and decades understanding this one.

anita