Anita-
He never physically abused me or anything, I suppose it was the tone of the argument. I cant quite describe it but it was scary and it somewhat triggered me, like he was being condescending or something. The arguments were just about things like me teasing him about keeping old clothes or other simple things that shouldn’t matter. They’re just awful because I care about him so much and he acted like he didnt care about me, and I guess that really hurt me. I feel like what I said was calm and respectful but what he said was pretty rude (i don’t want to get into it).
No screaming, nothing like that. It was just really hard to go through which I suppose made it awful.

Thanks,
J