I’m prepared for the divorce conversation as my gut is telling me that’s where it will go. I want to tell her that I don’t want a divorce and we should try counseling. I don’t want to throw away 10 years and my love for her. Over the past 3 weeks I’ve been thinking a lot about all I could have been doing to pay more attention to her and I truly understand why she’s feeling this way. I don’t want to promise change, I just want a shot at proving to her I can. If she truly doesn’t want kids I have no clue what I’ll say. I want kids but I always assumed they’d be with her. This has been completely crazy as it came out of the the blue one Sunday morning. Any advice if she does have her mindset on divorce?