Dear slp1214:

If you gave a specific example of you getting mad at him, what happens then- how do you express your anger, do you tell him anything? Does he know you are angry? How does he respond? Is the issue resolved…?

What you are experiencing may be an issue from your childhood, something unresolved. It may be a dysfunction in your relationship with your boyfriend. He may not be so… great and yet, he may be.

An example or two may help me understand more.

anita