Dear Jennifer:

In your original post you wrote: “He also said he’s embarrassed by his apartment and roommate and that if he had me over it would make him feel awful ”

In your most recent post you wrote: “I don’t know why he wouldn’t let me see his apartment.”

He told you why and you repeated what he told you, that he wouldn’t let you see his apartment because that would make him feel embarrassed, awful.

Do you know then why he wouldn’t let you see his apartment?

anita