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Arlene
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Hi Anita!

Please allow me to tell you about our background. I am a doctor and he’s a dentist. Last april when I was there, I was able to convince him to get an executive check up which he hasn’t done for years. Everything was ok except that he has to have a colonoscopy. I told him to schedule the procedure when I get to Maine in June so at least I can be there with him. That whole time we were okay. The three of us even his daughter. Unfortunately, the colo was scheduled the day after Father’s Day. So naturally we were all just staying in the house instead of going out because of all the preps for the procedure. That Sunday, we were all bored and irritable. His daughter kept pretending to be sick like him. At night, the three of us sleeps in one bed, his daughter wanted to FaceTime her mother, so me and my BF went out of the room to give the kid and her mother some privacy. I went downstairs and laid on the sofa and I fell asleep. I woke up cold, when I went up I saw the two sleeping. That tipped me off. I told My BF in the morning that, how was he able to sleep without even wondering where I was, if I was comfortable or not. And so I blurted, maybe we should have a break because you will never be sweet and caring. I don’t think you will change and that I will ever learn to accept that he’s never gonna change. Then he said ok, let’s have a break. Then I said, I want to go home now, I don’t know what I am doing here. So we arranged the earliest flight I can get. He took me to the airport and just dropped me. No more conversations whatsoever.