So…make a long story short as possible. I have been on and off again with this guy for about 14 months. I fell fast and hard as he was different than any man I had ever been with. VERY charming (but a liar like a sociopath). I have met his family, I spent Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Years with him and his family. I met his kids. Etc. He has told me that he loved me and cared about me many time. He told me that he could see himself spending the rest of his life with me. We talked about and looked for houses together. I THOUGHT he really loved me. I never caught him cheating but did have my suspicions. I did act a little crazy (popping up on him when he wouldn’t answer the phone etc). Because he made me feel so insecure in the relationship. We would “discuss it” (never really fight) and go on with the relationship. He would “ghost” me a lot. Go 12, 16, 24 hours or longer with no contact which he KNEW bothered me. I would forgive him and he would “be good” for awhile. So finally I broke it off, we didn’t see each other for about 10 weeks but still communicated. We ended up “getting back to together” I GUESS (no title this time) and then he did it again. Ghosted me for a whole weekend. I was PISSED!! I didn’t freak out but I said he needed to call me asap and he NEVER did. He just texted me like everything was normal (which was our normal routine). This time again I ignored it. Its been 7 days with no contact. I WANT and KNOW I need to move on but I feel like I need CLOSURE. A final goodbye, it’s over for good or SOMETHING. I am not even actually looking for an explanation because I feel like if he REALLY loved me he wouldn’t be able to just let me walk away. I believe he is damaged and doesn’t know how to love REALLY. BUT I still feel the need for the last goodbye. Although I love him and would LOVE to work it out (even though I shouldn’t) I KNOW I need to let go and move on. I am not even sure if the closure on my end would make me feel any better. He usually apologizes and we move on but nothing really changes. GOD help me this is so painful. I know I probably sound crazy but it helps to vent. Most of my friends just say F*&k him and move on. I wish it was that easy. ANY advice from anyone here in a similar situation? If I did do a LAST contact to say goodbye should it be a phone call (voicemail) or letter? PLEASE HELP!!