Dear neng:

I wish I could help you. I can read your sadness and your strong attachment to him. You agreed earlier that he is an unloving man, at least to the women in his life so far, by his own words. And yet, you long for him.

He also stated that the relationship is over, that you should move on, that he doesn’t believe in second chances, and so, it is over. But your life is not over. There has to be a better option for you out there, a loving man who is interested in you!

Try to accept that this relationship is over. Make peace with it, please.

anita