Hey,
I dont really have an answer for this – I am only 24, but I can identify with the shyness and introversion bit. I used to get bothered about having less friends before and would feel like something was wrong with me. Problem was that I failed to understand my basic need as an introvert – quality self time and select few relationships. It’s good to be at home this year with mom, dad and my sibling. It’s good to have that boyfriend I love. But more than anything, it’s great to spend more time on me – I spent too much energy before ruminating and driving myself mad – now I just take it easy and enjoy whatever I have. Somehow that desire to hang out with friends has gone down now – sure I have a friend or two around in my city left but I kinda like being with myself now somehow.

Regarding finding the right people, well frankly I would say it’s a matter of luck and selectiveness. I was always careful about people I got close to – there were some bad apples no doubt but it’s inevitable.

I think maybe a romantic partner would be more of a good addition at your age group. I understand the thought related to parents not being around forever. It’s a reality one must cope with.

Regarding friends, I have one basic rule – should be a decent person and have 1-2 interest in common with me. I can’t stand rudeness or any mind games, putting down stuff – those people I prefer to strike off my list immediately – I put with a lot of bullshit at school and stopped at college. hence I have very few and close friends – the rest are acquaintances.

I hope the other posters can provide you better tips. Take care.