Dear neng:

Logically, he let you go because he was not and is not emotionally attached to you. You are very attached to him but seems like he is not emotionally attached to you. So he is okay without you in his life.

It is emotional attachment to another person that pulls us toward contact with that person- it is a motivation to be with that person. It is like thirst that motivates you to drink. If you are not thirsty, you are not motivated to drink.

Does this make sense to you?

anita