Dear savannah1:

So sorry… “A LOT!” sounds major, not minor. A person should be consistent. Not perfectly consistent when a person is changing- the old creeps into present talk, then the person realizes it and corrects. It can be a person saying one thing in one context then later says something that seems contradictory but is not if considered in another context. But if the guy has a lot of naked women wrestling on his Facebook and otherwise did a lot of objectifying women, then it is a major problem.

Like I wrote at the beginning, just because you have trust issues doesn’t mean you are imagining people are untrustworthy. The world we live in is such that there are plenty of untrustworthy people. We have to evaluate who we associate with before trusting.

So, evaluate the guy. And post again. So sorry to see that sad face in your last post.

anita