Dear Clau:

I am glad you are back with an update but sorry to read that you and your sister are not doing well. The fact that your sister fainted four times in the last few weeks and that you suffer from physical symptoms of stress indicate that the two of you are not doing well.

On June 8 this year your father was instructed to stay away from the family home for three months and not live there for a year. In 19 days then he is allowed to visit the home (am I correct?) and I imagine your mother will welcome him. In 10 months he will be allowed to move in full time.

Your mother is not on your or your sister’s side. The well being of the two of you are not her priority and her behavior continues to harm the two of you.

In court, you won a battle but unfortunately, as I see it, you are losing the war, as things are.

Why didn’t you take your aunt’s offer for you and your sister to move in with her? Is that offer still available and will you consider it?

Even if your father never came back, half the abuse is still in the home: your mother.

Waiting for your answers regarding your aunt’s offer.

anita