Hi Anita,

Thank you and I agree, I haven’t spoken to my daughter yet concerning this as it’s been stressful already for her lol but yes I will do this. I think is that they want to be part of this family , I mean we all want to be part of a family but at the age they are at they need to this on their own, and I know it’s difficult with seeing each other a few times a year, but the truth is the boys are not close and thye live in the same house and I do believe a lot of it had to do with my bf behavovior. Unless the kids put in an effort with each other and an interest in even asking us questions about each other, there would be no point, I want to enjoy my only daughters’ wedding without having to worry how they are feeling all night.