Dear XenopusTex:

You wrote: “who lives at my house is of little issue, because I am not there that much.” This is one of the payoffs for overworking, the payoff I mentioned in a recent post to you. That is one of the benefits.

Regarding the pay cut if you take a job that gives you more time but less money- well, what is the use of more money if you don’t get to enjoy your own home, being there? Or otherwise, enjoy life?

Yes, lots and lots of people are in bad relationships, more than those who are in good relationships. Absolutely.

anita