Dear Jade,

it seems to me that being truthful is important to you and i´m behind you on that. It´s one thing to lie about little things but lying about a relationship is a whole different level. In the end the decision lies with you whether you think you can forgive and trust him or you cant. Because let´s be straight if you cant forgive and trust him this relationship is a lost cause.
In my circle of friends i had only one friend with a similiar situation to yours who decided to forgive and who is happily married now. The majority (including me) ended up less lucky. You know the man you love.So if you can find it in your heart to forgive him and give him a chance – that´s your answer. But if you can´t that´s fine too. You have loved once and you will love again.
I wish you all the best *big hug*. 加油！

Lakra