Dear J,

I understand your frustration and I am sorry to hear that you’re feeling that way. In life, if you’re constantly hearing “you’re not good enough” or words that have similar foundations, you’re going to start believing it. You are young and have all the time in the world to do what your heart desires! I would suggest going back to school to really find something you love to do. You can even take online courses if you’re busy finding a job during the day. You can get financial aid to support you with those courses. There is so much out there to do and yes it is difficult to find a great job with benefits, but it becomes slightly easier if you have either a degree or experience under your belt! All the best J! 🙂