Hi neverstoplearning,
“My initial reaction is that trying to approach her with love and forgiveness gets me nowhere – been there, done that. It’s basically what I’ve been trying to do for years – win her approval by killing her with kindness.”
If this is your initial step in approaching towards the situation and if you have done this in other ways, also try this time to do it “energetically”.
To do this, you will want to check out on the two methods I have posted on the below link.
(http://tinybuddha.com/topic/i-can-not-live-normal-anymore-i-can-not-accept-it/#post-113485)
Clicking the above link will directly take you to the exact post.
Good Luck!
VJ.
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