Dear Priscilla:

You are welcome. I do hope that you define happiness at this point as more than a none life-and-death situation and that you define a healthy relationship as more than one free of domestic violence.

Your last sentence: “maybe I should just be patient, maybe I should just stick it out, maybe she’ll come to her senses.”

You expressed a burden that you feel with her, like babysitting a child, having to lead her back to her senses, again and again… how often and how does this dynamic looks like in your daily life? I am asking in effort to encourage a conversation that may help you to get the clarity you need to decide whether to stay or leave the relationship.

anita