Hi there, questionmark.

Several things about your situation aren’t quite clear to me, so it’s difficult to offer advice. I’ll ask some questions instead. Hope you come back and explain a little more about what’s going on.

When you fight, are you fighting, or is he shouting at you? It takes two to fight, but you talk about his behaviour as if it’s all of the problem. So, which is it?

You didn’t want to get married, but you did. What led you to choose that?

What is it you fight about? Small, domestic stuff? Expectations around your roles in the household? Who’s the boss type stuff? How will we live our future stuff? Money?

How does he feel about the situation, and if he’s not happy, what does he propose to avoid you guys splitting up?