Also Anita I’m quite a laid back person I always thought k was so strong minded I had such a strong character especially where men were concerned. I was always the boss in relationships if that makes sense but I’m also very very laid back and don’t take life seriously. I’m the opposite to him he’s uptight and moody where as I am very light hearted and breezy. I rarely get worked up over things in general but I’m actually forgetting who I used to be everyone says I’m so witty and smart but that used to be me I don’t think it’s me anymore.
My confidence is so low and he says your lucky to have me and your lucky I put up with you etc etc hose remarks and he says I’m vain because I do my makeup and hair everyday so he says that’s vain just constant digs all the time and he said once you think your beautiful but I can get better that really really hurt me tbh.