Thank you Monklet, im still in the process of thinking it through, i still haven’t contacted her its been 5 days now, i want to talk to her and see if i can get through to her to understand my point of view again and if she refuses to understand me then i really have to set her free. i have done this process a lot of times and i guess this will be the last time i will be doing this, hopefully this time i can break her barriers to let me through.

also, its funny because the example you gave is exactly whats happening but in a more serious tone, and i think Age is really one of the factors to evaluate where the relationship should be so i really have to mention it.