Hi
I can see a big issues with trusting and freak control syndrome. To me Love is no conditions, trust, patience, support, encourage, no limiting for your beloved one. Even if his choices doesn’t make me happy – I am trusting no matter what.
Ladies are scared that if they will allow guys to do what they want ,they might cheat or fall for the other. But what’s the point or being anxious about it.. no matter how much she will try to lock you down, if the divine plan is for you to be with her than you will or not. Simple. So control freak…. it’s a self defensive behaviour, but I don’t think it’s a healthy way of living. Looking at your unfortunate issue I am visualising a bird in the cage or a hamster.. what kind of life they have? But they can’t make a choice ,whoever buy them makes that choice to keep them in that cage.. but humans – we are able to write our scenario to let someone control us or change us…
Life is Limitless and no one should set any boundaries for another human being. It’s unhealthy and it’s damaging. That’s not Love.

Xxx