Dear Liquidsnake:

To your question: in a theoretical situation where two people are very close, “at a soulmate level,” as you wrote, thinking of myself in such a relationship, I don’t need to get close to another person if I am already that close to one. The nature of my communication with my “soulmate” is such that I don’t need another… soulmate. I communicate with others but in a different way, for different purposes.

In your situation and in many other people’s situations, one of the “soulmates” is not happy with the other “soulmate” and is looking for others to communicate their unhappiness, to find relief from their distress. which makes it so that there are two “soulmates” only for one of the two, but for the other, there it is not so.

anita